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What random things do I have to share with you today...

The silent ones are the killer ones..
Ever heard of that saying?
I've heard it for the context of 'farts'.. and sometimes it's goes for people too... in many variations.

Take fights for example. A fight with your partner, in the movies would leave one or both parties screaming, tearing each other apart...breaking a few things around them, definetly some swearing. Then you have the ones that don't say anything, and keep it inside. These are the silent ones. The ones that keep quiet, and bite their lip, cause they are afraid to say it, to admit it, or to just talk about it.. hoping that maybe it wasn't happening, or maybe cause he/she felt that he/she did nothing wrong and does not want to stoop to the level of shouting and throwing things. And then perhaps, hurting unneccesarily.

Another example is stubborness. It's linked in alot of ways. It's one of those characteristics that a person possesses that can cause a relationship to crack. Especially worst if both parties are stubborn. Both don't wanna communicate, resolve...

You can't change someone's personailty, that's what makes the person. But, can you change a person's character? Will it be right to change, want to change a person. Perhaps not.

You like this person for a reason, and you are with this person for a reason. Next question, what constitutes as 'like'.. 'love'... or 'just friends'... what's the right person? How do you know.. thee right person...